Wednesday, February 4, 2009

The Problem with Teachers

We are all teaching – all of the time. Every minute of every hour of every day, we are teaching ourselves who we are. We are teaching ourselves that separation is real and wholeness is not, or we are teaching ourselves that Love is real and specialness is merely a crazy dream. The problem with teachers is that sometimes we forget.

Sometimes we get so caught up in the drama of our daily lives or the roles that we play, that we forget what is really going on here. Sometimes we think we’re teaching history or algebra. Sometimes we think we’re teaching joy or love. Sometimes we even think we are teaching A Course in Miracles! Oh certainly, in form we are teaching these things, but underneath, we are reinforcing a decision, the decision of identity. (And don’t be fooled into thinking that the one teaching history is doing anything different from the one teaching the blue book. They have the same purpose in the crazy dream, and they have the same purpose when released from the crazy dream.)

We teach what we most need to learn. The problem is that so often we are mistaken about what we are actually teaching - especially those of us who seem to be teaching spirituality and love. We teach what we most need to learn, because teaching and learning are the same. If Love is wholeness and oneness is our reality, we are both the teacher and the learner. Yes, it seems different in form. As is always the case, “seems” is the operative word. We are indeed but teaching ourselves.

Now, in the practical world of form, teaching and learning have some pitfalls, as one of my favorite and funky teachers recently pointed out. Here, in the world, these concepts seem like opposites. They seem like opposites, because here depends on opposites – or at least some fairly significant shades of gray. What we must remember, is that we make the decision for these differences. We always set the curriculum first, and then we use the world to prove our case believing that it is the world that is showing us what it is rather than us telling the world what it is. The form may indeed seem funky, but we choose what it means. We always choose the content.

If we believe we can teach something other than Love (and we all do), then we must believe that there is something other than Love. With that firmly established in our mind, we find opportunities that prove that we are great teachers of truth and light from time to time, and then we find equal opportunities that teach us that we have failed. We look upon a world that doesn’t “get it” and wish that it did, or we feel the guilt of our own failed lessons. Neither suits you, teacher. Let go of the judgment that creates the sense of obligation to do or say the “right” thing. We don’t know what love looks like. How could we with eyes that were made to stop at form? Teachers trust. Teachers recognize that removing the log of judgment from our own eyes is all that is required. There is no pressure to say or do the right thing. That vanishes in an instant of will when we recognize where the problem is and where it isn’t.

Teaching Love really means undoing (forgiving) all of the obstacles (guilt) that we have erected to keep Love away. Teaching Love means demonstrating that we are the same. We are the same in the insanity that imagines that teachers have something that students lack, and we are the same in the solution that reminds that teachers and students are one in purpose. Forgiveness is the process that undoes the former and makes way for the latter. So, thank you for being my teacher. Thank you for being my student. And thank you for forgiving me the judgment that would have them be different.

5 comments:

  1. Very powerful topic, Dave. Thank you.

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  2. Dave,
    You have said this well. Yes we are teachers and students at the same time. The great thing is that when we teach we learn more that those whom we attempt to teach. The greater the teacher the greater the teacher is a student.

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  3. Thank you for the linky love, D.

    You are right in that the more we study, the more we think we "should" be doing or saying something, the more judgment we put on ourselves. Its pretty ironic considering that all of our studies are trying to show us how to release judgment.

    I have to remember that I don't know what right or wrong looks like. And I can only make decisions based on what I know at the time, both in form and content. The content, of course, being... what state of mind I'm in, who is my teacher?

    Thank you again, for the reminder that I am both teacher and student.

    And the reminder to RELAX! (as Frankie says)

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  4. My pleasure on the linky love, T. Likewise. :)

    One of my early teachers of the blue book used to say that the whole thing can be summed up in one word.....and Frankie knew it.

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  5. Amen, Mark! You said it!

    I can attest that as the (student) mother of a (teaching) teen, I am almost nuts for a reprieve from learning all that she has to dish out! OMG! Our struggle is usually about.. I'm the adult she's the child. I'm the teacher she's the student. And I think SHE resents adults because of me insisting that children are separate from adults. But if you know Indigo people, you know better than that. Our latest teaching session, she let me have it and as I was ticked off at the idea of a 15 year old dissing me, I also realized she was teaching me. At that point, I was done with being right and she knew it. And Dave.. at this point, all the guilt between us was undone. Make sense?

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