Wednesday, March 11, 2009

The Problem with Fear

We are all afraid, all of the time. Sure, sometimes we feel safer than others. Sometimes we even believe that we can find safety here. We know, though, that it won’t last. On some level, we know that we compromise with fear every minute of every day.

The problem with fear is that we aren’t aware of its source. We think our fear is due to some external threat such as a disease, the bad guys, acts of God, etc. We spend every waking hour (consciously or not) defending against these myriad concerns. Defenses don’t protect us; they simply reinforce attack. Fear is always the result of a belief in attack.

Fear is an effect of the ego thought system, a delusional thought system dependent on attack and guilt. Fear is the result of a thought, a tiny mad idea, which we’ve given power and consequence. If we recognized for a second that a thought was the source of our fear, we’d change our mind, and Peace would remain.

Having identified with this thought system, however, we protect it as if our life depended on it. What we think is our life does. The only way to undo the fear is to recognize its source and decide against it. Within the ego’s thought system, we have no awareness that there is another way. (Remember, the feedback loop from a previous post.) That’s why we need help. We need a symbol beyond the insanity, beyond the closed thought system. Forgiveness is that symbol – whatever form it happens to take. The content of the symbol, i.e. that guilt is impossible and never justified, is the solution.

We can’t untie a knot until we stop hanging from the rope. Likewise, we can’t undo our fear until we stop hanging on to (or from) our guilt. Undo the guilt, and the fear will follow.

3 comments:

  1. "We can’t untie a knot until we stop hanging from the rope"

    So very true! It is amazing to go through the day and even better through the silence of the night without fear!

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  2. It sounds like such a process... of undoing the guilt. I know that it is, but it can also be a moment of "now" when we do that same thing. Those holy instants keep us going along the process, in hopes that we can do them more and more often.

    Thanks D!

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  3. T - It is a process, because we are so afraid. To your point, forgiveness happens now, though the fear does seem to creep back in. Those instants of innocence do indeed reinforce our new purpose, and they are indeed holy. Thanks, T.

    Mark - Thanks for the comment. Glad to hear you enjoyed a peaceful night!

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